Communication is the foundation of every relationship - between co-parents, colleagues, clients, and even within ourselves. In the aftermath of separation, when emotions are high and trust is low, effective communication isn’t just helpful - it’s transformative. Drawing from her experience as a family lawyer, author, and co-parent, Gabriella Pomare introduces The Four Pillars of Communication - Listen, Pause, Reflect, Respond - a simple yet powerful framework that reshapes the way people interact under pressure.
Gabriella will explore how these four pillars can de-escalate conflict, rebuild trust, and create stability for children and how the same principles apply in every domain of life: in leadership, in practice management, and in personal growth.
Attendees will leave with practical tools to:
• Reframe conflict as an opportunity for clarity and compassion.
• Apply the four pillars to client interactions, team leadership, and personal resilience.
• Foster healthier co-parenting and professional relationships built on respect, not reactivity.
Speaker Bio - Gabriella Pomare
Gabriella Pomare is a Sydney-based family lawyer, author, and co-parenting advocate reshaping how families experience separation. As Partner at The Norton Law Group and founder of The Collaborative Co-Parent movement, Gabriella is known for her practical, child-centred approach to conflict resolution and her commitment to helping families build “new families with new rules.”
Drawing from over a decade in family law and her own lived experience as a co-parent, Gabriella developed The Four Pillars of Communication - Listen, Pause, Reflect, Respond - a framework now central to her work with clients, professionals, and audiences worldwide.
Her debut book, The Collaborative Co-Parent (Morgan James, New York, 2025), is fast becoming an international touchstone for parents seeking a more dignified and emotionally intelligent way to navigate divorce. Through her writing, media appearances, and speaking engagements across Australia and the United States, Gabriella bridges the worlds of law, psychology, and leadership - showing how the principles that heal co-parenting relationships can also transform the way we communicate in business, leadership, and everyday life.